Help my sister is dating a loser
Last edited by sedie80; at If she wants to live off our Dad, then she is going to be treated like a child. It is free and quick.
Thank you for all of your advice.
They should together set a deadline by which she needs to have found a job and make a list of the steps she needs to take to find one ie. She might also view staying with him as her rebellion against parental authority. If her knight in shining armor rode in and swept her off her feet, do you really think she'd put up with this chunk for another day? I'm trying to refrain from preaching to her or trying to convince her to dump him because I know it will make her want to stay with him that much more.
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I is a 16 year old dating a 21 year old wrong my sister is on board I had a quick chat with her. If she's hardheaded, the more you dump on him the more she's going to cling to him.
Once they get a job and they start having to pay for rent and bills things change; they mature and it is then that they are able to view that some things they have been doing or certain people they chose to allow in their lives are not good for them. And during this time where she is still studying, are my parents wrong to not let her see the guy? There is nothing more you can or should do in this case. I balled a BPD reject around that age, it didn't last, and unless your sister has serious problems, I would file this under stormy late-adolescence dramaz and expect the whole thing to blow over fairly quickly albeit not without some 3am phone calls and whatever other hullaballoo.
My sister is dating a loser. Me, my mom, and dad do NOT approve.
The thing that would change the mood the fastest is your disapproval in the love of your life. Eventually she'll see what a loser she's dating and hopefully dating kyungsoo him.
I think cougar speed dating london idea about making it clear that she will be supported until she finishes her degree at the beginning of the year and then she will need to find a job is good.
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It may be hard to see your sister in that way someone who has a named "social problem" but as several of us here have mentioned, that is exactly the kind of situation it is. I'll also show this thread to my parents.
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A lot of people end up going for the extreme because it is the convenient way out, not necessarily the best. I know it's so hard to trust HER and believe in her abilities to act like an adult, particularly when she's making these tough choices, but any little thing you can do helps.
I have been trying to approach this issue by asking questions, not help my sister is dating a loser about him frequently since my helps my sister is dating a loser nag herand generally trying to be available to her.
She doesn't have to work, and she has the luxury of studying at her own pace. They are now married with two little girls and shes finally realizing that hes not exactly the guy she thought he was.
I am desperately trying to figure out how to convince her that this guy is no good, and is only taking advantage of her. No programming knowledge required!
Second red flag Not only that, but she will often spend her entire visit talking to his stepmom or watching his brothers while he watches TV in another room.